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I believe in my own instinct, and believe in things will come my way, everything will lay out as intended, without having to force things to happen.
Now, i believe this even more. Really, there is no need to get frustrated and try so hard to jump start something. I mean, yeah you still need to have plans and hit a few bumps the first time you start something. But here's the trick. Give it up. For like half a year or something. Then revisit it. Your prespective will change. And your plan will work this time.
Moe and i have been talking about marriage since like he proposed two years ago. But it never really stick. Have you ever got that feeling? Or is it only me?
Stupid wedding hollywood stories. Made you believe that the moment you are engaged, all you do is jump into wedding planning. Bah!
But this time, i guessed WE ARE GETTING MARRIED. You know, making it official as man and wife. I don't know why. Last time it's just a thought, a fantasy. Now it's like, "Hey Along, we can really plan our own wedding without the need of getting sponsored by our parents. Here's how..."
And it is really achievable. After all, didn't we save close to ten grand in seven months for our HK trip?
That hits home for Moe. At first when i broach this subject, he was silent.
Moe and i hung up and a few minutes later, Moe texted "After much thougt and consideration. I think our wedding can be done :) I think we can develop a budget from my next year's bonus and a percentage from my shows and hosting jobs will go to the wedding fund".
I think when the time comes for me to be a responsible parent, i will be ready too.

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